Well I have been home for about almost three weeks already. I just dont know why I cant sleep well on my own bed anymore in my house. Hmmm wonder what had happen to me already...Well I tend to have sleepless nights with dreams on and on...Maybe one thing is I lack of exercise so I tend to go to sleep with a lot of energy and two, I sleep late...LOL...
When people dreams, it means that we are actually not sleeping well and is in a half awake mode. Means we are actually half asleep. When we get out, our head tends to get so painful and our eyes starts to get heavy and droopy even after a night's sleep. Well I dont even know if I was sleeping the whole night especially yesterday night until this morning. Now I felt so sleepy and I had too much dreams last night. LOL....
Well the weird dream that I kinda remember this was I was teleported to one of my friends house in Sabah. She is a girl though. Hehehe I saw her uncle first. He told me the rest of the members of the house were actually there also. Then I realize her father was there, but I dont saw her mother, hmm wonder why, some of her nephews and nieces and also her grandmother. Well its such a funny dream. When I walk up to shake hands with her father, he takes off his spectacles LOL...Wonder why he did that though. Then we tend to like cook lots of food for some sort of ceremony. The cooking place was just behind the living room. Weird right ??? LOL and lots of food were cooked and put in front of the television like some sort of worshipping ritual LOL...just so blur why I think so though..Hmm the most weird part is my parents were there too and they seem to come by car. I mentioned just now right that I teleported to my friends house. Well in dreams, anything is possible right ??? ^_^
Hmmm well dunno what does this dream means though...Well its funny and weird actually...Wish I can sleep well the next few days. The holidays are almost at a end and I had been home for about two and half weeks already. Its the 15th of June this month and I had to fly back on the 19th of June. School will start to reopen on the 20th of June. Argh!! More stress will come! Just by looking at the time table makes me so stressful already. My exam result will also be announced on the 20th. Hmm hopefully I can get a pass at least. Dont really want to repeat my exam though. Hmmmm but the happy thing that happens is my college gets new TRAINEES!! Means JUNIORS!! XD haha TESLS in IPG Kent was alone all this while but not this new semester anymore. We got a bunch of juniors to take care now so I think with the enlargement of our big Language Department family, we can do more fun activities together now....^_^ Looking forward on that day. Still worried about my result though...Well I could just pray right...
Hmmm gonna finish the rest of my holidays well. Eat lots of mum's food and go out for walks and shopping centres till I get bored. Well I learned dancing recently but it does not go well. Still struggling to learn dancing..Hehehhe well wish me luck! See you all again in the next post...^_^ Ciao! Tata!! XD
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
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Dream dream dream....Never sleep well these few days...Hmmm...
Well, its been a while since I started post everything though....Its 1am and I think I'm gonna sleep late again today...hehehe...By the way I just finish watching a korean talk show titled 'Win Win' on KBS world Astro. Well to start things off, it was quite an interesting show actually.
Well I learn quite a lot of things about life, tips about couples and the talk show was given by a professor well dont know what is his name though...haha well it does not matter what is his name.Well the first thing I learn is in a relationship, touch is a very important key to ensure a long lasting relationship. Well, the professor mentioned that the basic tips of touching in a relationship involves the hands, lips, and mouth. Well maybe what I can understand is kissing is one, and the second holding hands, patting backs, and even caressing your partner's hair.
Actually in marriage life, touch decreases when couples have children. They tend to cut down their kissings, huggings, holding hands, and caressing each other when they are in front of their children. This cause them to feel less loved, less touched by their partners. Well its actually not the correct way. By touching each other, kissing each other, hugging each other in front of their children will actually creates a normal and natural reaction for the children to do so when they grow big later. It creates a positive impact on children actually. Well people nowadays tend to think that hugging, kissing, holding hands is not good to be done in front of children, well it actually helps them to think that doing so is a positive way to express love actually and will not be shy or felt that doing so is a negative action.
The professor also mentioned that he wrote books. Well the books he wrote exist because he tends to write out his thoughs on a small notebook eveytime he felt he wants too. Well people sometimes tend to talk to themselves, well it is quite normal actually. Talking to oneselves when they feel angry, cursing, exclaiming when they saw something terrible, amazing, sad example watching sad korean dramas, well actually we can be a writer if we know how to voice out our feelings in a book. Well sometimes its good to talk to ourselves since we need to give some time to understand ourselves as well, talking to ourselves too...^_^
The professor mentioned that man who are old around fifties I guess tends to leave their house and went to bars just to take a drink and at the same time caressing and touching the beautiful waitresses there. LOL well he mentioned that this happens because his wife did not give him enough caressing or touches. Therefore man find their thirst for touch by touching other women either in bars or where they can touch someone. Well the word touch here does not mean touching women only, it can be in a form of a handshake, backslap, or a high five as long as it involves touching. Touching actually gives us a sense of existence, a sense of we are still living in the world. Well I guess for me this is true and I think it is an interesting fact too given by the professor. So well couples, young and old married couples, better give your partner enough touch or caresess or they will start to seek caressing and touches from other people. ^_^
Another think that I learn from the professor is, in order to be happy, first list out a couple of things that if you do it you will feel happy. Secondly, read it and do the things listed. It will make you feel happy...^_^ I think this is really true. Well so I guess when I am sad next time, I just make a list of things that will make me happy and do some of it..^_^
Well in the show, I learn also that having a wife actually brings joy. So well, I am still young and I have not get married yet well so I don really know if it is true or not. Anyway being in a relatonship makes me more happy and brings joy to me compared to when I was single. Well at least I have someone to share my happiness, my joy, my sadness, eveything that I have now. Hehehe...someone to give me love, to care for me and do lots of fun things together...Well its true though...XD Well, an example of why a wife brings joy is she prepares a breakfast for her husband. Before her husband was married, he was a single man and he made breakfast by his own. After he gets married, his wife always prepare breakfast for him and this actually makes him feel joy and happiness since someone is preparing his breakfast for him instead of him doing it himself. Well there are a lot of examples by the way, but I think this example is quite clear already..^_^
Mother. Our mums give birth to us right ? Well when mums give birth to us, we first exist as babies. Well wanna know why we are who we were today ? Well actually our mums are the one who makes us who we were today. Well I know this is so cliche, but the fact is when we cried, our mum will tend to say, ''hush hush, don cry, let me give you a big hug and a big kiss''. Well when our mum actually said this to us while we are babies, they are actually helping us to develop our skills such as walking, talking, eating and running. For an example, as babies we try to walk and we fell down and cried. When our mummy saw us falling down, she tends to say ''Oh my gosh what happen'!' Don cry Don cry, mummy's here. Actually the fact when she said this, its actually helping us to walk. Well the following week, we can walk already. Therefore to sum up things, when our mums makes expression and said something everytime we cry, we fall down or something bad happens to us, they make us learn our abilities to talk, walk, and run actually. So be thankful always to our mums...^_^ Mums are always facinated by their babies by the way. Babies are always facinated by their mums...^_^
It is nature for humans to feel impressed right. By climbing up and reaching the peak of Mount Kinabalu for an example, we tend to say ''Yeah!'' ''Wao! I did it!!'' Right ? Actually we are making ourselves feel impressed by doing so. Well that is why many people want to impress themselves by achieving things that they think after they do it, they will feel impressed.
Well in couples, complementing, giving praise and positive exclaimation to each other is important as well. This is because every person loves to be praised right, being appreciated for their achievements and ect.. Well its the same things in couples either in a relatioship or married status. Husbands love to hear their wives saying good job when they came back after a day of work when they came back. For sure, they love to hear compliments from their wives after a long day of work. By complimenting each other, both couple will feel happy, being appreciated and this actually can avoid the feeling of boredness occurs in the relationships. For sure being married for a long time will cause boringness after some time. Complimenting each other is important.
Well these are the things that I had learnt from the show which I remembered. Well quite interesting facts as well. Gonna use these in my daily life...^_^ Hope those who read this post will learn something from this post. Sharing is caring...^_^ Enjoy reading...^_^
Well I learn quite a lot of things about life, tips about couples and the talk show was given by a professor well dont know what is his name though...haha well it does not matter what is his name.Well the first thing I learn is in a relationship, touch is a very important key to ensure a long lasting relationship. Well, the professor mentioned that the basic tips of touching in a relationship involves the hands, lips, and mouth. Well maybe what I can understand is kissing is one, and the second holding hands, patting backs, and even caressing your partner's hair.
Actually in marriage life, touch decreases when couples have children. They tend to cut down their kissings, huggings, holding hands, and caressing each other when they are in front of their children. This cause them to feel less loved, less touched by their partners. Well its actually not the correct way. By touching each other, kissing each other, hugging each other in front of their children will actually creates a normal and natural reaction for the children to do so when they grow big later. It creates a positive impact on children actually. Well people nowadays tend to think that hugging, kissing, holding hands is not good to be done in front of children, well it actually helps them to think that doing so is a positive way to express love actually and will not be shy or felt that doing so is a negative action.
The professor also mentioned that he wrote books. Well the books he wrote exist because he tends to write out his thoughs on a small notebook eveytime he felt he wants too. Well people sometimes tend to talk to themselves, well it is quite normal actually. Talking to oneselves when they feel angry, cursing, exclaiming when they saw something terrible, amazing, sad example watching sad korean dramas, well actually we can be a writer if we know how to voice out our feelings in a book. Well sometimes its good to talk to ourselves since we need to give some time to understand ourselves as well, talking to ourselves too...^_^
The professor mentioned that man who are old around fifties I guess tends to leave their house and went to bars just to take a drink and at the same time caressing and touching the beautiful waitresses there. LOL well he mentioned that this happens because his wife did not give him enough caressing or touches. Therefore man find their thirst for touch by touching other women either in bars or where they can touch someone. Well the word touch here does not mean touching women only, it can be in a form of a handshake, backslap, or a high five as long as it involves touching. Touching actually gives us a sense of existence, a sense of we are still living in the world. Well I guess for me this is true and I think it is an interesting fact too given by the professor. So well couples, young and old married couples, better give your partner enough touch or caresess or they will start to seek caressing and touches from other people. ^_^
Another think that I learn from the professor is, in order to be happy, first list out a couple of things that if you do it you will feel happy. Secondly, read it and do the things listed. It will make you feel happy...^_^ I think this is really true. Well so I guess when I am sad next time, I just make a list of things that will make me happy and do some of it..^_^
Well in the show, I learn also that having a wife actually brings joy. So well, I am still young and I have not get married yet well so I don really know if it is true or not. Anyway being in a relatonship makes me more happy and brings joy to me compared to when I was single. Well at least I have someone to share my happiness, my joy, my sadness, eveything that I have now. Hehehe...someone to give me love, to care for me and do lots of fun things together...Well its true though...XD Well, an example of why a wife brings joy is she prepares a breakfast for her husband. Before her husband was married, he was a single man and he made breakfast by his own. After he gets married, his wife always prepare breakfast for him and this actually makes him feel joy and happiness since someone is preparing his breakfast for him instead of him doing it himself. Well there are a lot of examples by the way, but I think this example is quite clear already..^_^
Mother. Our mums give birth to us right ? Well when mums give birth to us, we first exist as babies. Well wanna know why we are who we were today ? Well actually our mums are the one who makes us who we were today. Well I know this is so cliche, but the fact is when we cried, our mum will tend to say, ''hush hush, don cry, let me give you a big hug and a big kiss''. Well when our mum actually said this to us while we are babies, they are actually helping us to develop our skills such as walking, talking, eating and running. For an example, as babies we try to walk and we fell down and cried. When our mummy saw us falling down, she tends to say ''Oh my gosh what happen'!' Don cry Don cry, mummy's here. Actually the fact when she said this, its actually helping us to walk. Well the following week, we can walk already. Therefore to sum up things, when our mums makes expression and said something everytime we cry, we fall down or something bad happens to us, they make us learn our abilities to talk, walk, and run actually. So be thankful always to our mums...^_^ Mums are always facinated by their babies by the way. Babies are always facinated by their mums...^_^
It is nature for humans to feel impressed right. By climbing up and reaching the peak of Mount Kinabalu for an example, we tend to say ''Yeah!'' ''Wao! I did it!!'' Right ? Actually we are making ourselves feel impressed by doing so. Well that is why many people want to impress themselves by achieving things that they think after they do it, they will feel impressed.
Well in couples, complementing, giving praise and positive exclaimation to each other is important as well. This is because every person loves to be praised right, being appreciated for their achievements and ect.. Well its the same things in couples either in a relatioship or married status. Husbands love to hear their wives saying good job when they came back after a day of work when they came back. For sure, they love to hear compliments from their wives after a long day of work. By complimenting each other, both couple will feel happy, being appreciated and this actually can avoid the feeling of boredness occurs in the relationships. For sure being married for a long time will cause boringness after some time. Complimenting each other is important.
Well these are the things that I had learnt from the show which I remembered. Well quite interesting facts as well. Gonna use these in my daily life...^_^ Hope those who read this post will learn something from this post. Sharing is caring...^_^ Enjoy reading...^_^
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