Well, its been a while since I started post everything though....Its 1am and I think I'm gonna sleep late again today...hehehe...By the way I just finish watching a korean talk show titled 'Win Win' on KBS world Astro. Well to start things off, it was quite an interesting show actually.
Well I learn quite a lot of things about life, tips about couples and the talk show was given by a professor well dont know what is his name though...haha well it does not matter what is his name.Well the first thing I learn is in a relationship, touch is a very important key to ensure a long lasting relationship. Well, the professor mentioned that the basic tips of touching in a relationship involves the hands, lips, and mouth. Well maybe what I can understand is kissing is one, and the second holding hands, patting backs, and even caressing your partner's hair.
Actually in marriage life, touch decreases when couples have children. They tend to cut down their kissings, huggings, holding hands, and caressing each other when they are in front of their children. This cause them to feel less loved, less touched by their partners. Well its actually not the correct way. By touching each other, kissing each other, hugging each other in front of their children will actually creates a normal and natural reaction for the children to do so when they grow big later. It creates a positive impact on children actually. Well people nowadays tend to think that hugging, kissing, holding hands is not good to be done in front of children, well it actually helps them to think that doing so is a positive way to express love actually and will not be shy or felt that doing so is a negative action.
The professor also mentioned that he wrote books. Well the books he wrote exist because he tends to write out his thoughs on a small notebook eveytime he felt he wants too. Well people sometimes tend to talk to themselves, well it is quite normal actually. Talking to oneselves when they feel angry, cursing, exclaiming when they saw something terrible, amazing, sad example watching sad korean dramas, well actually we can be a writer if we know how to voice out our feelings in a book. Well sometimes its good to talk to ourselves since we need to give some time to understand ourselves as well, talking to ourselves too...^_^
The professor mentioned that man who are old around fifties I guess tends to leave their house and went to bars just to take a drink and at the same time caressing and touching the beautiful waitresses there. LOL well he mentioned that this happens because his wife did not give him enough caressing or touches. Therefore man find their thirst for touch by touching other women either in bars or where they can touch someone. Well the word touch here does not mean touching women only, it can be in a form of a handshake, backslap, or a high five as long as it involves touching. Touching actually gives us a sense of existence, a sense of we are still living in the world. Well I guess for me this is true and I think it is an interesting fact too given by the professor. So well couples, young and old married couples, better give your partner enough touch or caresess or they will start to seek caressing and touches from other people. ^_^
Another think that I learn from the professor is, in order to be happy, first list out a couple of things that if you do it you will feel happy. Secondly, read it and do the things listed. It will make you feel happy...^_^ I think this is really true. Well so I guess when I am sad next time, I just make a list of things that will make me happy and do some of it..^_^
Well in the show, I learn also that having a wife actually brings joy. So well, I am still young and I have not get married yet well so I don really know if it is true or not. Anyway being in a relatonship makes me more happy and brings joy to me compared to when I was single. Well at least I have someone to share my happiness, my joy, my sadness, eveything that I have now. Hehehe...someone to give me love, to care for me and do lots of fun things together...Well its true though...XD Well, an example of why a wife brings joy is she prepares a breakfast for her husband. Before her husband was married, he was a single man and he made breakfast by his own. After he gets married, his wife always prepare breakfast for him and this actually makes him feel joy and happiness since someone is preparing his breakfast for him instead of him doing it himself. Well there are a lot of examples by the way, but I think this example is quite clear already..^_^
Mother. Our mums give birth to us right ? Well when mums give birth to us, we first exist as babies. Well wanna know why we are who we were today ? Well actually our mums are the one who makes us who we were today. Well I know this is so cliche, but the fact is when we cried, our mum will tend to say, ''hush hush, don cry, let me give you a big hug and a big kiss''. Well when our mum actually said this to us while we are babies, they are actually helping us to develop our skills such as walking, talking, eating and running. For an example, as babies we try to walk and we fell down and cried. When our mummy saw us falling down, she tends to say ''Oh my gosh what happen'!' Don cry Don cry, mummy's here. Actually the fact when she said this, its actually helping us to walk. Well the following week, we can walk already. Therefore to sum up things, when our mums makes expression and said something everytime we cry, we fall down or something bad happens to us, they make us learn our abilities to talk, walk, and run actually. So be thankful always to our mums...^_^ Mums are always facinated by their babies by the way. Babies are always facinated by their mums...^_^
It is nature for humans to feel impressed right. By climbing up and reaching the peak of Mount Kinabalu for an example, we tend to say ''Yeah!'' ''Wao! I did it!!'' Right ? Actually we are making ourselves feel impressed by doing so. Well that is why many people want to impress themselves by achieving things that they think after they do it, they will feel impressed.
Well in couples, complementing, giving praise and positive exclaimation to each other is important as well. This is because every person loves to be praised right, being appreciated for their achievements and ect.. Well its the same things in couples either in a relatioship or married status. Husbands love to hear their wives saying good job when they came back after a day of work when they came back. For sure, they love to hear compliments from their wives after a long day of work. By complimenting each other, both couple will feel happy, being appreciated and this actually can avoid the feeling of boredness occurs in the relationships. For sure being married for a long time will cause boringness after some time. Complimenting each other is important.
Well these are the things that I had learnt from the show which I remembered. Well quite interesting facts as well. Gonna use these in my daily life...^_^ Hope those who read this post will learn something from this post. Sharing is caring...^_^ Enjoy reading...^_^
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